If you find yourself feeling burned out and unappreciated, getting upset with yourself (and others) way too often, or aren’t sure how to respect yourself without the fear of rejection popping up, 21 Days of Self Love is the answer. It’s designed to show you how to love yourself even if those around you are trying to take advantage of you or you don’t think you deserve to be loved . You’ll not only learn how to fill up your Love Tank to feel centered and at peace but you’ll be able to give and receive love from an authentic place. And don’t worry, I will guide you with a gentle hand and compassionate style while giving you the full court press putting you into action almost immediately. Folks have felt loved up after the first class.

This comes down to trust doesn’t it? If you are still reading this page, I bet you trust me and want me to convince you that I am trustworthy. I hope I’ve done that with the honest reviews on this page and scattered throughout the website plus the videos sharing who I am and my journey. But past that, this is a decision you have to make on your own. You have to make the decision to trust me to guide you on this journey of self love. Thousands of others have yet this decision is yours and yours alone.

No problem. There’s actually no such thing as getting behind because you’re in charge of the pace. Even though the intention of this Course is 21 Lessons in 21 days, we recognize that just like building your physical muscles, you may need a day or two of rest and integration during the next 21 days. If you need it, take it and then, jump back in. The more you stay focused on practicing each Love Lesson, the more you’ll get out of the Course. So go ahead, take 24 days or even 30 days…just keep going no matter what.

Of course. A program is no good if you are overwhelmed and find yourself beating yourself up. In every email, there will be a link to stop the sequence of emails at any time. Just remember, when you stop the emails, you won’t have your daily reminders to keep you focused on moving forward in loving yourself.

It’s important that each person who’s enrolled in the 21 Days of Self Love program makes a conscious decision to join and invest in their own growth. Feel free to share your results with the people you love but encourage them to invest in themselves. There is nothing that can replace a decision that says “YES I am ready to love myself” like a sign up for a class that can truly make a difference.

Each day you will receive an inspirational email that includes the Topic of the Day and a Love Note that will put a huge smile on your face. Plus, you will get your “Love Lesson of the Day” that helps you integrate each day’s Topic. You’ll also be reminded to watch the next video and/or listen to the next audio (there’s four in all.) It’s important to download the audio mp3’s into your library so you can listen over and over again. We’ve thought of everything to keep you on track. No procrastination or slipping away in this Course.

If that supports you, sure. More therapists refer clients to me than coaches, speaker and authors combined. They know my stuff works, and they have your best interest at heart. So yes, please do. I have clients who actually share their daily homework with their therapists. I say, share away. The more support you have on your journey, the better.

Because I know what it feels like to NOT love myself. I was confused by the concept of self love for decades. I thought saying it was enough. Au contraire. Saying it and believing it and then, living it are vastly different. I know this self love terrain well. And, of course, I could also throw out a list of amazing things about myself like I overcame a twenty year horror story of my own or how I’ve met Oprah, twice, or I could tell you about the women’s lives I’ve changed in the Starting Over house that aired every day for three years on NBC. But come on, that isn’t important, right? It doesn’t matter really if Good Housekeeping has done a profile on me or I have been on The Today Show and blah blah blah, or my gosh darn Emmy win. What does matter is that you’re still reading this. You want me to convince you to join my program, convince you that you are worth giving the gift of self love to. But I’m not going to. YOU have to decide this one. Plus, there’s a 7 Day Guarantee or you get all your money back. All you have to do is show you tried by turning in the completed daily Love Lessons. So frankly, you got nothing to lose but that darn ol’ fear of yours.

Your self respect. Your self worth. Your ability to give and receive love. Let’s face it, you wouldn’t be here if this problem hasn’t been going on for a while so how long do you want it to last? This is what is true: I believe in you. And you have to decide to believe that I can get you to the other side. I’ve been coaching for over two decades and have thousands of people raising their hand saying ”this works.” So what’s at risk if you don’t? What’s at risk is that the problems that come from refusing to love yourself are just going to get bigger, and you’re gonna feel like you are drowning in it. Don’t go there. Grab my hand. Let’s do this.

First thing that should scare the pants off you is that it is 21 days focused on loving YOU. 21 days of lessons. 21 days of growing. 21 days of action. That is intimidating for so many people because they haven’t ever really done one thing for themselves for 21 days. But you know what I’m about to say: Change can’t happen unless you invest in yourself for a long enough period of time for it to take hold. So yes, 21 days can seem like an eternity but that’s why ultimately you take the Course at your own pace plus you have the coaches support and the community group and me right here. You won’t be alone so you won’t feel alone. We’ve got you.

This is why support is so important to me. I know what it’s like to be out there on your own swimming in deep water and trying to get to shore. I lived that way for 20 years, so I get it. I do. That’s why I send you daily reminders – so you stay focused – and why you watch the video or listen to the audio each day and grab the lesson of the day and ask questions inside the Course Learning Center. You don’t have to go a day without support. And don’t forget…what does all the support add up to? Integrating these new tools of self love into your life. They won’t do you any good if you don’t use them every day. I would rather save my breath than waste your time so if I am teaching it, it’s for a reason.

Once you order, you will receive a Welcome email outlining the things that will be delivered to your inbox on a daily basis, seven days a week, for the next 21 days. The daily emails officially begin on the day you sign up for the Course.

Each day you will receive an email delivered right to your inbox with the Topic of the Day, a Love Lesson and an inspirational Love Note as well as links to the Course login page because we know how important it is to have everything delivered right to your inbox. For your convenience, everything is inside the Course Learning Center that you can go to at any time to watch videos, listen to the audios, grab the Love Lessons and anything else you need. Oh and don’t forget, if the daily emails aren’t your best way to learn, you have the option of downloading the Love Book. The Love Book contains everything that’s inside the daily emails. To stop your daily emails, Just click the link on the bottom of any Course email.

21 Days of Self Love is a course inside Fearless You. Fearless You is a membership (like a gym membership), you have unlimited access as long as you are a member. If you cancel, your membership is disabled at the end of the last month you paid for, and you will not longer be able to log in to the membership site. 

Sure. Call the office anytime. You’ll find our Customer Happiness Team ready and waiting to support you with any and all of your questions. Because our team has access to the Courses we offer, they know this Course inside and out. You can ask them anything.

If you watch the video or listen to the audio each week, that’s an hour or two investment per week. Plus a few minutes each day reading your Topic of the Day and inspirational Love Note. Some days you will probably want to write some things down on your Daily Love Lesson Worksheets. How long you spend is up to you.