How to find your


YOU have a purpose! YOU have something you were designed to do – something that will click and make your whole life suddenly come into focus. Now’s the time to find it with our 21 day course!

Normally $497
Get it today for $297


Build confidence by
showing yourself YOU CAN DO IT!

Know how to tackle the challenges you’ve been putting off.

Move forward on
your own terms.


Your life.
Your destiny.
Your rules.

No, you don’t have to buy a motorcycle or go skydiving – unless you want to!

Why you need to find your purpose

Without purpose, you drift through life seeking “something,” but you’re not sure what. You try this. You try that. It’s a great learning experience, but you never feel fulfilled. SOMETHING is missing. When you know your true purpose, that “thing” in life that you were just DESIGNED to do, everything changes. Suddenly you’re focused and sure of yourself. You know your place in the world. Gone are the days of feeling useless, unwanted or unloved. Finding your purpose is finding your worth.

You need to find your purpose if:

  • You’ve had a couple changes, but you still don’t feel fulfilled
  • You’re good at something, but not sure if it’s your “purpose”
  • You see patterns in your life, but aren’t sure what they mean
  • You “seem” successful, but you don’t “feel” successful

Why is taking risks so important?

In our first session, Carlie laid it all out for me. She was a 35-year-old stripper who was so successful that she took the red-eye every Thursday to New York just to dance at one of its most popular men’s clubs. She’d walk out with $2,000 in her pocket. But she was anything but happy.

“I’ve made so many stupid mistakes,” Carlie said. “I’m so embarrassed that I’m 35 years old and still dancing for a living. I want to matter. I want to do something with my life. I want to quit hiding.”

I could hear the pain in her voice, and we got to work right away. After just THREE WEEKS, Carlie had found her true calling – as a speaking coach! Today, Carlie has a thriving practice teaching others to feel confident on stage, how to make an impact with their words and share who they really are.

When she had completed the Fearbuster Exercises I assigned her (and yes, those same ones are in this Course), everything she had done in the past added up to something that she now loves to do. And she’s good at it. She just needed some courage and skills to get there. And a whole bunch of permission. I’m glad to report, that Carlie is now happily married to a lawyer (that completely accepts her past) and has three beautiful children.

Think about it – she was stripping for a living. It’s crazy to think ‘stripping’ could actually help her move forward into a life she now loves. But it did. No experience is ever wasted. Let’s see, she knew how to work a crowd. She was good at overcoming her fear of being in the public eye. She was confident on a stage. She was SO CLOSE to living her purpose – she just needed a little help getting where she was truly going!

Honest Reviews

“Rhonda has created a process to tap into your purpose. She bases her class on her own extensive and compelling personal experiences, study, research, and as a product of her own empowerment. She presents the information (gathered throughout her lengthy career) in an organized fashion and has refined her information so as to be palatable to almost anyone, of almost any age. You walk away from the class knowing exactly how to achieve your purpose and prepare for what you might run into along the way.”

Susan Selix Lawyer
Susan Selix

“What I love about ‘How to Find Your Purpose’…

I love that I can access the MP3s at any time and that Rhonda is right in there with us… present and commenting in the Community Group. THANK YOU, Rhonda. You so inspire me to do MORE of the work I came here to do!

If you really, really are serious about changing your life’s course, this is IT. Be willing to do the work, bravely follow the steps and magic unfolds! Rhonda truly leads you from the heart!”

Susanne P. Zurich, Switzerland
Susanne P.

Rhonda has developed a process to let you uncover the key element for living a fulfilled day, year, life…. your purpose. Once I did the activities and got the insights, I started using them to get great clarity on how to move forward with my passion, my work and relationships with an energy that seems to have an generator attached at my heart plus bringing me a much deeper calm and satisfaction.

Barbara Metzger Owner/President at Maximize
Barbara Metzger

Here’s what you get

21 Days of Purpose Notes from Me!

Daily doses of inspiration and insight to help you find your true purpose!

Transcripts of the Entire Course

No matter if you’re a visual or audio leaner – I’ve got you covered!

Weekly Webinars

  • Daily doses of inspiration and insight to help you find your true purpose!

Mp3 Replays

Yours to keep forever!

Daily Support in the Community Group

  • Join the love-fest! Be surround yourself with people who are giving love freely – not those who are sucking it away!

Fearbuster™ Exercise Worksheet

To help you apply what you’re learning in your daily life

How to find your


YOU have a purpose! YOU have something you were designed to do – something that will click and make your whole life suddenly come into focus. Now’s the time to find it!


Who is this course for?

If you find yourself stuck in a rut of indecision, or can’t seem to put any action behind your dreams, or secretly want someone else to solve your problems, Change Your Life in 30 Days is the perfect solution. It’s designed to take away the uncertainty that creeps up on you when life is throwing slings your way. And don’t worry, I will guide you with a gentle hand and compassionate style while giving you the full court press putting you into action almost immediately. Folks have changed their life after the first class.

How do I know this will solve my (problem)?

This comes down to trust doesn’t it? If you are still reading this page, I bet you trust me and want me to convince you that I am trustworthy. I hope I’ve done that with the honest reviews on this page and scattered throughout the website plus the videos sharing who I am and my journey. But past that, this is the first decision you have to make on your own. You have to make the decision to trust me to lead you out of your rut. Thousands of others have yet this decision is yours and yours alone.

Do I have to do 30 days in a row? What if I miss a day?

No problem. There’s actually no such thing as getting behind because you’re in charge of the pace. Even though the intention of this Course is 30 tools over 30 days, we recognize that just like building your physical muscles, you may need a day or two of rest and integration during the next 30 days. If you need it, take it and then, jump back in. The more you stay focused on practicing each tool, the more you’ll get out of the Course. So go ahead, take 33 days or even 40 days…just keep going no matter what.

Can I take a break if I need to?

Of course. A program is no good if you are overwhelmed and find yourself beating yourself up. In every email, there will be a link called “Stop. I need a break” that will stop the sequence of emails at any time. Just click on the link called “Start Me Up. I’m ready to go” in any of the emails to start the sequence right where you left off. Just remember, when you stop the emails, you won’t have your daily reminders to keep you focused on moving your life forward.

Can I share this program with a family member?

It’s important that each person who’s enrolled in the Change Your Life in 30 Days program makes a conscious decision to join and invest in their own growth. Feel free to share your results with the people you love but encourage them to invest in themselves. There is nothing that can replace a decision that says “YES I am ready to change” like a sign up for a class that can truly make a difference.

What do I get with the coaching emails?

Each day you will receive an inspirational email with the link to the video of the day. It’s important to download the audio mp3 into your library so you can listen over and over again. Plus, you will get your “Fearbuster Exercise™ of the Day” that helps you integrate each day’s lesson. And don’t forget your daily inspirational text messages or emails (delivery of your choice) so you can stay focused on the lesson each day. We’ve thought of everything to keep you on track. No procrastination or slipping away in this Course.

Should I tell my therapist I'm doing this program?

If that supports you. Sure, more therapists refer clients to me than coaches, speaker and authors combined. They know my stuff works, and they have your best interest at heart. So yes, please do. I have clients who actually share their homework with their therapists. I say, share away. The more support you have on your journey, the better.

Why should I use this program and not someone else’s?

I could tell you a bunch of amazing things about myself like I overcame a twenty year horror story of my own or how I’ve met Oprah, twice, or I could tell you about the women’s lives I’ve changed in the Starting Over house that aired every day for three years on NBC. But come on, that isn’t important, right? It doesn’t matter really if Good Housekeeping as done a profile on me or I have been on The Today Show and blah blah blah, or my gosh darn Emmy win. What does matter is that you’re still reading this. You want me to convince you to join my program. But I’m not going to. YOU have to decide this one. Plus, there’s an “It’s Gonna Work” 30 Day Guarantee or you get all your money back. So frankly, you got nothing to lose but that darn ol’ fear of yours.

What’s at risk if I don’t order right now?

Your future. Your confidence. Your self-esteem. Let’s face it, you wouldn’t be here if this problem hasn’t been going on for a while so how long do you want it to last? This is what I true: I believe in you. And you have to decide to believe that I can get you to the other side. I’ve been coaching for over two decades and have thousands of people raising their hand saying ”this works.” So what’s at risk if you don’t? What’s at risk is your problem is just going to get bigger, and you’re gonna feel like you are drowning in it. Don’t go there. Grab my hand. Let’s do this.

What is intimidating about doing what you’re asking me to do?

This is why support is so important to me. I know what it’s like to be out there on your own swimming in deep water and trying to get to shore. I lived that way for 20 years, so I get it. I do. That’s why I send you daily reminders – so you stay focused – and why you watch the video or listen to the audio each day and grab the lesson of the day and ask questions. You don’t have to go a day without support. And don’t forget…what does all the support add up to? Integrating these new tools into your life. They won’t do you any good if you can’t use them every day. I would rather save my breath than waste your time so if I am teaching it, it’s for a reason.

How can you remove the intimidation for me?

This is why support is so important to me. I know what it’s like to be out there on your own swimming in deep water and trying to get to shore. I lived that way for 20 years, so I get it. I do. That’s why I give you Topic Tip Sheets and a Fearbuster Exercise – so you stay focused – and why you watch the video or listen to the audio. And don’t forget…what does all the support add up to? Integrating Stretch, Risk or Die into your life.

What happens when I order (list the steps)?

Once you order, you will receive a Welcome email outlining the things that will be delivered to your inbox on a daily basis, seven days a week plus that email will ask you to decide how you’d like to get your inspirational daily reminders: SMS or email. It’s your choice. The daily emails officially begin on the day you sign up for the Course.

How are the calls/materials delivered?

Each day you will receive an email delivered right to your inbox with links to the Video of the day because we know how important it is to have everything delivered right to your inbox. But let’s not forget about the daily inspiration text messages or emails. You’ll have a choice when the Course starts to choose whether you want to receive them by SMS or Email. Either way, they’ll be delivered to you twice during the day to keep you focused. For your convenience, everything is inside the Course Learning Center that you can go to at any time to watch videos, download the audios, grab the Fearbuster Exercises™ and anything else you need.

How long do I have access to stuff?

Forever. I encourage you to download the audio to your computer, so you have it handy to upload to the cloud or directly to your smartphone or tablet.

Can I talk with someone before ordering, if so how?

Sure. Call the office anytime. You’ll find our Customer Happiness Team ready and waiting to support you with any and all of your questions. Because our team has access to the Courses we offer, they know this Course inside and out. You can ask them anything.

How much time will I have to invest?

If you watch the video or listen to the audio each day, that’s a 30-minute investment. Plus a few minutes reading your daily inspirations and email reminders. Some days you will probably want to write some things down on your Daily Worksheets. How long you spend is up to you.

Be Fearless!

Founded with passion

Emmy Award-winner, Repeat Oprah guest, Tedx Speaker, Huffington Post Blogger – has been called “America’s Favorite Life Coach.” She has changed lives in over 600 episodes of reality television, is the author of four bestsellers including her seminal work “Fearless Living”, is the Founder of the Fearless Living Institute, an organization fueled by heart, backed by science.

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